The pandemic of the last 3+ years has knocked the stuffing out of most of us, I think. It's also knocked a lot of stuff into our lives that was not there before. Masks! Face shields! Bulky Corsi-Rosenthal contraptions made of kludged-together box fans and furnace filters! Emergency packs to cope with tornadoes, derechos, ice storms, wildfires and power failures arising from myriad crises! Meanwhile, it's been harder to divest ourselves of the stuff we DON'T want around any more. The City of Ottawa urged us to postpone putting out large bulky items on garbage collection day. Thrift shops pressed "pause" on collecting donations. The Friends of the Experimental Farm have not held one of their big book sales since 2019.

Fortunately, much of the above seems to be coming to an end.

We got a phone call in late April or early May from the Diabetes people. They would be in our neighbourhood on May 10. Did we have anything we'd be interested in donating? Well, yes!

They were very specific about what they could and couldn't accept, how it should be packaged and so forth. And one thing we've acquired in abundance over the past 3 years of ordering stuff online is packaging material. Cartons. Bubble wrap. Brown paper packaging, though not tied up with string.

So I put together bags and boxes of clothing, household items and little-kid toys that the grandchildren have outgrown, labelled them with the downloadable Diabetes Canada labels and put them out for collection. That worked so well that I arranged a second pick-up date for early June and packaged up more stuff. Which was also duly picked up.

The City of Ottawa used to schedule twice-annual "Giveaway Weekends" when you can put out stuff you don't want, but somebody else might. Now, however, they boast that giveaway weekends have morphed into Giveaway Every Day. Unfortunately, I don't think that works nearly as well. People aren't going to cruise your neighbourhood each and every day to see what's on offer! And you can't have stuff all over your lawn when the lawn service comes in to do its weekly mowing! This past Saturday, however, was our neighbourhood garage sale day. I don't have the patience to sit in our garage or driveway, babysit a cash box and try to flog my stuff. But knowing that there'd be lots of people around, I decided to put out some unwanted stuff that I figured other people might be interested in, and marked it as being free for the taking. And it magically disappeared over the course of the morning, while we were exploring the neighbours' offerings.

And on June 24, the Friends of the Experimental Farm will again be accepting book donations for their sale in October, which returns after a 4-year hiatus. Then on November 4, they're accepting more donations for NEXT year's sale.

We still have stuff that may prove challenging to divest ourselves of. But for now, that's a good start on the decluttering process!
Tackling home-based projects during a pandemic would seem at first blush to be a no-brainer. We're staying home, there's nothing very interesting to do when we do go out and we've got all the time in the world, right?

So we get started. And we quickly realize that there are all kinds of bottlenecks in the process.The keen DIY'er finds out that it's impossible to obtain more lumber, more nails, more tools. Because lots of other folks had the same idea and were quicker to act on it.

I'm not much of a do-it-yourselfer. But I'd have thought that projects involving sorting, categorizing, "decisioning", storing or discarding were ideally suited to lockdown conditions. In hindsight, I know that it ain't necessarily so.

Decluttering and downsizing can spawn a sense of accomplishment if done well. But there's a downside to downsizing too. For one thing, pandemics change priorities. Maybe a year ago, you were hardly ever at home. Now, all of a sudden, your home must serve not only as your castle but also your office, classroom, nursery, bakery and much, much more! Tiny homes no longer sound like such a great idea when even in a moderately-sized home, you have trouble finding your own personal physical and mental space. Items you thought you'd have no more use for may assume a new importance when you've broken the item you've got a duplicate of and you can't easily shop for a new and better one.

I'll take credit for a few accomplishments in organizing and repurposing. Like old luggage, for example. We have a few suitcases around which are rather impractical for travel use, even if we do get back into travel. They don't have wheels, the zippers are unreliable and they might not stand up well to being tossed about by baggage handlers and carousels... that sort of thing. But they're fine for storage. I have one that now contains various letters and postcards I've received from people over the years - the sort of thing I don't want to throw out but don't need ready access to on an ongoing basis. If I'm in a down mood, I can just dip in, re-read a few and go on a pleasant trip down memory lane. There's another suitcase containing stuff that I've written myself - old diaries, school papers, short stories - again, things I don't refer to that often but know I still want to keep. But nor do I want, at least for now, to digitize them or consign them to the wilds of cyberspace, not knowing into whose hands and eyes they may fall.

But paradoxically, it's the stuff I KNOW I don't want which is proving to be the biggest obstacle in the decluttering process. I'm all in favour of finding a good home for stuff we no longer want or need. Pre-pandemic, I'd box up that stuff first and get it out of the way and out of my life. It used to be a quick win, a way to build the momentum that would help me see the project through to its end. But now, the TAKE IT BACK! guide has become more like a KEEP IT! or WE DON'T WANT IT!! guide. I used to regularly box up surplus books and donate them to the Friends of the Experimental Farm for their annual book sales. Or to the archives centre at Centrepointe, to be re-sold at the monthly mammoth book sales or the permanent shop at the library. But events like that have all been put on hold and they are not accepting any more books.

Other categories of surplus items can be hard to dispose of too. Furniture. Clothing. Beer, wine and liquor bottles. Many places have either closed down themselves or are Covid-nervous and feel that accepting second-hand goods at this point is not worth the hassle. The city has suspended most of the special waste drop-off days and also the giveaway weekends when you could put items at the curb side for neighbours and others cruising the area to help themselves.

I guess we all just wait for the re-opening process to resume.
Is there such a thing as meaningful clutter? A neatnik would likely say no. But many of us answer with a resounding YES!

We've seen a flurry of books extolling the virtues of minimalism, especially in the spring when everything is about spring cleaning and downsizing. Certainly both are important - it's just that the clean freak may be incapable of distinguishing the baby from the bathwater or the trees from the forest!

Amidst all the Marie Kondos and professional purging gurus of this world, though, there is at least a modest backlash. I was just reading over a couple of newspaper articles I had clipped last year and they reflect my thoughts quite well. One was by Nathalie Atkinson and appeared in the Globe and Mail on May 13; the other, "Clutter or Collection?" is by Joanne Richard and appeared in the Citizen on January 21. The latter article gives the example of a typical chain hotel room that is, as she puts it, "cookie-cutter bland". OK for spending a night or three in, but it never really feels like home. I also recall when the fashion in workplace design shifted in the 70s to the open-concept office. Of course, since they were spending half their waking hours there, workers wanted to make the space their own so then screens and baffles were erected and soon the "open" office was a maze of cubicles and we were the white mice scrambling through to earn our daily chunk of cheese. In the 80s, 90s and beyond, further efforts were made to depersonalize the workplace and convert us all to the "universal footprint". Well, if the shoe fits... but sadly for many of us, it didn't.

As both these articles point out, it's one thing to value experience over "stuff" but the material things you've collected over the years and decades serve as triggers for the life experiences (whether happy or sad) you've had over the course of your life. This was vividly brought home to me (quite literally) when we suffered a break-in in January of 2000. First we had to figure out what precisely had been taken. Then we had to figure out the replacement cost of these items - only to discover that while the replacement cost might not be that great, some of the items were simply not replaceable. Accessories or bits of costume jewelry I'd picked up on my travels, for example. And how do you put a value on peace of mind and feelings of violation of personal space? The burglars had opened my nightstand and strewn about a number of personal letters and sympathy cards sent to me following the death of my father just two months earlier. An alarm clock had been tossed across the room, perhaps in a fit of pique at not finding what they really wanted. Luckily the only family member home at the time had been the cat and she seemed relatively unscathed by the experience but wasn't about to tell me anything - except maybe that I was late with her dinner!

To give both hoarders and purgers their due, I will say that it's been in the course of clearing out various accumulations of stuff - drawers, closets and so forth - that I've discovered those little gems I had long since forgotten about. Sorting and categorizing is a process that, for me at least, is best tackled in various phases depending on my mood and the time I have available. Of course, in a natural disaster or other emergency or crisis situation, one doesn't always have that luxury; when life is reasonably calm and stable, that seems like the best time to approach such matters.

Stay tuned!
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